The demand for space is a very general reason that men provide to get away from a relationship. Many a times, the reason is genuine and is incited indirectly by other reasons such as family problems, personal problems etc. A break up caused due to this demand for space is especially heart breaking. It just seems that everything you had in your life has come to an end. Thus, in this article we will tell you ways of dealing with the age old problem of “how to win my ex back” when his constant demand for space has already led to a break-up.
To start with, do not give into him very easily. Play hard to get and take all the time in the world. This will make him understand your importance. Apart from that, you would not want to be with him at the cost of your own self-respect. Thus, do not give in.
Next, if you get the feeling that your ex is still interested in you, do things that may force him to think about you more than he wants to. For instance, you can send him messages or e-mails. However, remember to not to talk to him too much else it will only kill the anxiety brewing in him about you. Similarly, you can talk to him a bit on the chat messages or call him once in a while. The idea is to give him a queue that would keep him thinking about you.
Once you have aroused enough excitement, your ex will start talking to you all over again. And that is the time when you have to rekindle your relationship. While trying to bring back the romance, remember to talk about only the good memories. All that bad which happened in the past, bury it in some corner of your heart and let it remain there. Talk about the nice things that happened between you two. This will make him want you all the more.
Even after all these efforts, if your boyfriend is not responding then he is probably not interested in you. Another case may be that he genuinely needs space and thus, you should give him that. But if he shows interest and if he is giving you attention slowly advance and continue to try and revive your relationship.
If your ex is giving is showing a very good amount of interest in you, giving you importance and listening to you always, maybe he does want to get back too. In this case, you can go ahead and confess your true feelings. Although do not start to throw yourself on him. Also, if you think that he is not showing any interest, stay quiet and let things shape up naturally.
The ideas that I have provided you are not my own. I have learned them from T. ‘Dub’ Jackson who has designed a plan known as “The Magic of Making Up”. I got my girlfriend back after using it and hence you should give it a try as well.
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mmm… what if he didnt replied?he always replied but when i talk abt break up..he wont reply me again.. what should ido?