If your man left you, and you are wondering how to get your ex boyfriend back, then there are certain things you need to know about men before you even attempt to get him back. I have an entire section giving you a step by step plan, but it will be pointless if you can’t keep him. Your boyfriend left for a reason, and when men leave a relationship, it’s usually because of only one reason – They didn’t feel admired.
They might have given you a lame excuse like “This is just not working” or “I just don’t love you anymore”; but the truth is most men don’t want to hurt you when breaking up. Sometimes they are just afraid of your reaction when they tell you the truth, sometimes they don’t even know why they are leaving. And even though all breakups are unique, it can all be boiled down to why they were unhappy in the relationship.
Even if your men cheated on you, it wasn’t because they wanted someone prettier than you; it was because they were looking for that admiration and affection that you provided when your relationship was new.
In the starting of a relationship, women admire their men. They laugh at their jokes, the try to impress them, they wear cute dresses etc. But as the relationship becomes stale they start wearing sweat pants, don’t attempt to laugh at their jokes and just don’t make them feel admired. You’ve probably heard men say they just hate the “nagging” that women do. Well, it’s not exactly the nagging; it’s how they feel unappreciated and unadmired when women nag.
Men need to be appreciated for who they are. They want to be respected, admired and wanted. And if you just give them that, you will both be in a much more happy relationship for a long long time.
Here is an interesting video about what men want by T W Jackson.
Read more in my How to get your ex back – 3 Step Plan