Is My Ex Over Me? Is My Ex Thinking About Me? Does My Ex Still Love Me?

so many questions

Is My Ex Over Me? Is My Ex Thinking About Me? Does My Ex Still Love Me?

So Many questions run around your head like a moth around a candle flame. It seems almost impossible to get rid of them. You just can’t stop thinking about what your ex is doing and what they are thinking. Is my ex over me? Is my ex thinking about me? Does my ex still love me?

And then you go to their Facebook page, read their status message. That just makes things a lot worse. You start thinking about what they meant by that. Is there a hidden message in there? And then more questions.

After that the sinking feeling starts to take over. Your heart actually starts paining. You could feel it. Didn’t the relationship mean anything to them? Was it all just fake? How can they be over me so soon?

GOOD NEWS

They are not over you. If they look like they are doing great and they are already over you and are having the time of their lives, then I’ve got news for you. IT’S ALL AN ACT.

Listen, if you two had a meaningful relationship, then I can GUARANTEE you that your ex is still thinking about you. They still have feelings for you. Feelings don’t just go away after a breakup. Yes, it’s true that sometimes people try to forget their past relationships. But nobody is actually able to achieve that impossible feat.

If you are at all thinking about getting them back, then I’d highly recommend that you start being happy as well (read How to get your ex back 3 Step Plan). It’s just normal. Don’t pretend. I know it’s hard right now. Especially with so much confusion and chaos in your mind. But you will have to learn to be happy.

But more importantly, don’t be miserable. Even if you feel miserable and heartbroken, don’t announce it to the world on facebook. One sad facebook status message from you, and you’ve just given your ex the upper hand. On the contrary, if your facebook status messages are upbeat and funny, you’ll make your ex start thinking about you.

Remember, you have to learn to stop obsessing over your ex, what they are thinking, what they said during the breakup, and yadi yada yada. If you want to get your ex back, you need to get your mind straight and start working on yourself.

Make sure you read the 3 Step plan on getting your ex back to get an idea of the whole picture.

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  • Hassan April 28, 2011, 6:51 am

    Hello,
    I broke up with her for like 3 to 4 months now, after a period of 7months. She loved me extremely to the highest. She even spent on me with her own money.After some time, she told me that she us to be friends due to our religious differences and what her mum told her. I asked her and she then me she did not love me like it used to be.

  • RebeKha June 10, 2011, 8:52 am

    Omg, Hassan your story is Very similar as mine, my ex and I dated 8 months we were in deep.love. Yeah we had our ups and downs. He knew right off the bat I have different Religious views in which He WAS ok with for all the time we dated. When we broke up he claimed it was beavuse he just didnt feel strong live for me, also that our religious views were differ. & that he cant make me happy..so on so ON, ECT. I was/AM Still confused. Of the whole brake up, like he just one day turned cold :(. I honestly dont know if he would want to go back with me. I mean he cried when we broke up.

  • latasha bostick October 10, 2011, 1:18 am

    i guess its time to move on and learn its more good guys out there then just him.

  • Jaclyn December 25, 2011, 7:06 pm

    My boyfriend broke up with me because he said he didn’t have time for me anymore. When he came to say goodbye, he kissed me and said he would only love me forever. The other day I texted him and said I missed him, and he said he missed me too but this was for the best. He also said he can’t be friends because he can’t stand seeing me love someone else. And he also blocked my on fb.

  • luckyone January 16, 2012, 2:05 am

    I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years going on 3 months ago. He broke my trust and I couldn’t face him anymore. He had emotional issues as well, and nothing was getting better. Now, I know for a fact he’s trying to turn his life around and move on and it makes me happy. I just saw him for the first time since we broke up today and it was very emotional for me and for him. I know I no longer had any bad feelings and just wanted him to be happy, even if that wasn’t with me. But he said he’d never stop hoping with all his heart that someday we could try again. And…I didn’t tell him no. I didn’t tell him yes either, but I told him we were young and the future was unknown to both of us. I started dating someone new a week after we broke up and I was so afraid he’d resent me for it and think what we had meant nothing when it meant a lot to me. I love my new boyfriend very much, but now I don’t think I would mind if somewhere down the road me and my ex tried again, after he’s fixed himself up and his attitude toward life. I don’t see it as false hope, just a door that I’m leaving open, just in case.

  • monette February 13, 2012, 3:33 pm

    My ex and I broke up 1 and a half year ago.. but ever since we broke up, we still continue to communicate.. now I have a new bf. We still talk and my bf doesn’t know about it..I remember he mentioned he loves me but I didn’t mind it cause I really don’t wanna know or feel it cause the truth is we just can’t be together.. I know we’re not having an affair but I wanna keep him secret.. I don’t understand what I really feel for him.. what I know is I’m happy when we talk..