If you want your ex to be attracted to you again, you have got to understand the mindset which will make this happen. We all know that begging and pleading is unattractive, and so is telling them how much you love them over and over again. There is a certain type of mindset that you need to achieve which will make your ex attracted to you again.
To achieve this mindset, you have to understand one of the psychological factors that are embedded in every human brain. No, it’s not about how “We want what we can’t have”. It’s about mystery. People are attracted to things that they don’t understand. The more mysterious you look to someone, the more they will think about you and the more they think about you, the more they will fantasize about you, and the more they fantasize about you, the more they will hopelessly fall in love with you.
Let’s take a step back and look at an average person who has just been dumped by their ex. Let’s call him Mike. Mike’s ex gave him some lame cliché reason for the breakup. Now Mike is trying to find out the real reason for the breakup and he keeps on thinking about what happened and why did his ex break up with him. The more he thinks about his ex, the more he finds himself hopelessly in love with her. His ex is like a mystery to him at the moment and he just can’t stop obsessing over her.
Mike’s case is pretty normal after a breakup. The fact is that the more we think about something, the more we find ourselves attracted to it. Of course, you have to have a reason to think about someone.
So how do you make your ex think about you all the time?
It’s not that difficult. I’ll talk about that in my next blog post. Watch out.